Turn The Lights On! Why Sex In The Dark Is The Worst!
When it comes to getting down and dirty in the bedroom one thing that we do is turn off the light. Yeah, there are times when you might want to switch off the lights (maybe you are exploring in some blindfold play and want to make it as dark as possible) but there are also times when having the lights off is the WORST idea ever!
To help inspire you to leave the lights on, let us talk you through the reasons why we think sex in the dark is the worst!
You can see everything
Now, we know how that sounds, if you have some body hang-ups then chances are that you don’t want your partner to be able to look at you naked. However, sometimes that is the thrill of hooking up. Your partner finds you attractive just the way that you are, which means that being able to see you is going to be a thrill for them. Not only this, but you will be able to see their reaction during sex too, which is going to get you going even more!
You feel more connected
Aside from being able to see everything that is going on, when you have the light’s on you are going to feel a whole lot more connected to your partner. You can lock eyes with them, you can make sure that they know exactly how you feel and the things that you are enjoying the most.
It shows you are confident
Whilst you may not always feel it when you look in the mirror, it is important to try and feel as good about yourself as possible. Confidence comes from within and you should always remind yourself that you are beautiful inside and out. When you are happy to leave the lights on, then you are showing your partner that you feel happy in your own skin and there is nothing sexier than a woman who knows just what she has got going for her!
It makes lights off sex even better
When you are used to things being one way, then it means that when you mix it up, the new way (even if it is not so new) feels a whole lot more exciting. This can definitely be said for sex. When you are used to having sex with the lights on, then when you switch them off and get down and dirty in the dark. You are going to feel a whole lot more excited!
So, what are you waiting for?
Don’t worry about how much your partner can see, leave the lights on and let them see all of you in its glory! After all, confidence in the way that you look naked and being able to show it off and flaunt it; well that is the biggest turn on possible!