How To Master Role Play
Sex is supposed to be fun. It’s a simple statement, but it is one that we forget. Especially if we are in a long-term relationship. When we have been with our partner for a while, we start to take them (and sex with them) for granted. The good news is that there are plenty of ways that we can try to spice things up and get the fire back in the bedroom.
One thing that we can try to do is role play. The idea of role-play is that you pretend to be someone else, in a fantasy world that you create with your partner. The idea is simple, but it seems to be something that some people find tricky to do.
If you are wondering whether or not role play could be exactly what you need to bring some life to your love life, then check out how you can master the art of role play.
Whether you want to admit it or not, we all have fantasies. They could be something pretty normal, or they could be something a lot more off the wall. They are personal and so long as they are legal, they are perfectly fine. The great thing about fantasies is that they can be really useful when you are trying out role-play for the first time. They are your chance to identify what it is that really gets you hot and then act them out with your partner in the real world.
Talk about them
You can’t act out on a fantasy unless you talk about them and share them with your partner. This can be one of the most daunting parts of role play, but if you don’t do it then you won’t ever know if they feel the same way or if they are willing to try it out with you.
Be as kinky as you like
The thing about role play, is that it is all your own. You can be as kinky or as vanilla as you like. Of course, you do need to make sure that the other person who you are role playing with is happy with the kink level that you are going for (hence the importance of the above point) but once you now that they are on board, then you can let the fun begin!
Go at your own pace
Role playing in the bedroom (or wherever you fancy if you are a fan of mixing things up) can be daunting and there is a good chance that you will like the idea of something, only to find that in practise it isn’t quite right. You need to make sure that you only ever go at your own pace, whether that be as an individual or as a couple. No-one makes the rules for your sex life, so, if you want to pump the brakes, then pump away (in more ways than one).
Role play can be great fun, but it is something that might be tricky to get your head around. Try it out for yourself and see if you want to carry it on in the future?